hmm, y dun u be urself during a date and let the girl find out for urself how your character is? And isnt it beta that both of u al start as fwens then slowly proceed onwards if theres potential? Girls will usually be turned off if you try too hard. Its like showing u r despo bahs..mayb if u dun try so hard, the ideal ger wil come naturally to u..gd lucks.